now I feel bad that I called her kind of a tease a...

2008-07-21T10:10:00.000-07:00

now I feel bad that I called her kind of a tease a few entries back. poor girl. I feel the same way you do about rape/rapists. and even more especially child molesters. only the lowest and most pathetic human beings would attack someone weaker/smaller than them against their will.

This is personal but fuck it....from 7-9 I was mol...

2008-07-21T08:08:00.000-07:00

This is personal but fuck it....from 7-9 I was molested and then raped at 15. No one ever knew until I could utter the words out of my mouth to my husband. He was having trouble trying to understand why I was shutting down sexually - after we had been married 2 years, and had 2 kids.

Rape is something that damages a woman from the inside out. But it doesn't make her damaged goods. Do I make sense? It is terrible and makes you feel dirty/unworthy/worthless but I found finding the right person to talk to and not being judged about it makes it easier to deal with. The pain never goes away.

But...if she is unloading all this on you, this early, IMHO, the wound is too fresh for her and you should look elsewhere because she needs time to heal.

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now I feel bad that I called her kind of a tease a...

This is personal but fuck it....from 7-9 I was mol...