Saturday, August 9, 2008

Mission: Failed

So I was in Vermont last night.  Went to hang out with a friend, and get out of the city.  Went out to a few bars in Brattleboro.  Downtown Brattleboro, VT has a bunch of pretty good bars.  So I called L2 on Thursday night, and got the two ring, straight to voicemail.  I didn't leave a message.  Not sure if it was cuz she didn't have service, was on the phone or just sent it straight to VM when she saw it was me.  So I went to bed and didn't think about it.  Friday I talked to my friend Becky about it and told her I was just about done dealing with this girl.  She asked if I left a VM and I said no, and she suggested that there are a million ways she could have missed the call and that if I didn't leave a VM she may not even have known that I called.  So last night I figured what the hell, I'll give her a call.  I went out to the sidewalk and made the call.  She didn't answer and I left a message.

She texted m a few minutes later with a text that said: Hey, whats up?

I didn't know how to respond to that so I asked for advice from the girls that we were hanging out with.  An overall consensus was reached and I replied:  Not much, I'm in VT.  What is up with you?

Her response: Enjoying the weekend.  

Now, the fact that I actually got a response or two means something to me, but all of the girls that we were hanging out with said "She's not interested.  You're wasting your time"

So I didn't respond last night.  It seems that the girls we were hanging out with and voiceinmyhead are basically reaching the same conclusion.  So I guess I just stop trying at this point?  I dunno.

Another girl who wants nothing to do with me.  Becoming the story of my life.

Tonight L is in town.  Going to go do some bbq-ing at a friend's house and then maybe head out to Harvard Square for some drinks depending on the weather.  Should be a good time, and at that very least keep my mind off of L2.

1 comment:

  1. I used to drive up to brattleboro a lot when I was at umass. its got a great used book store and a used record store too I really like.

    I feel the same way you do personally when it comes to pursuing guys. If they aren't being responsive its really not worth your time. Your instinct is probably right.

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